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Here are six illustrations of what it’s like to be in our heads.
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Second, it ignores your responsibility to deal with the issue at hand and passes it to someone else.
By the time a child has gotten in trouble for something, they already feel guilty, sorry and embarrassed about it.
You can also train yourself to make sure the child fully understands your response, with “I just told you my answer. ” This allows the child to present their opinion or get clarification.
First, you are threatening a child, which makes them fearful of you.Second, the threat is usually not something that is feasible to do (we are going home, you are going straight to bed, you don’t get dinner, you are grounded for a week, etc.) What we say in frustration is not only impractical but easily forgettable. You can train yourself to be clear and concise, using choices.“If you choose to (continue that behavior), you choose to (receive whatever consequence has already been established as a punishment)”.A kid can sit down on a chair facing the back, and we make them turn around.Train yourself to acknowledge their behavior without a judgment, such as “You chose to sit the other way on the chair” or “You colored the grass purple instead”.
“Do you choose to tell (Mom) what happened, or choose for me to tell her with you there to make sure that I explain it correctly?