Question to ask when your dating
Letting physical intimacy run wild and free typically means the emotional, spiritual, and personality attraction is lagging behind. Sex while dating can create many awful shades of gray, when what your relationship needs is some honest black and white.
One of the greatest causes for conflict in marriage are contradicting core values.
However, for many of us our fallback communication plan will be the one our parents laid out for us.
Holidays, especially, are giving you a glimpse into how your partner has been taught and trained. Sit up, take notes, because believe me you’ll want to feel prepared for the test that comes later. Love can be the worst form of manipulation there is.
Take me for example, one of my core values is authenticity.
Not all values are the same and sometimes you can have two very good people with very good values, but those values can feel at war with each other.
A spouse should be like a gold miner, going under the surface to uncover the invaluable stuff underneath.
Is the person you’re dating like a magnet trying to bring the best of you to the surface?
Or are they trying to bury you under a pile of dirt?
We all go through intense communication training for years; it’s called childhood.