Sexy chat with stranger
I stumbled over my words trying to explain myself, “Umm.. I’m sorry if it came off like that.” They told me how it weird and they weren’t going to answer a question like that. They initially gave me the same attitude, but this time the liquid courage gave me a comeback.
So I tried again with another group, and then another. After downing a drink (or two), I decided to try again with another group.
Sexual intimacy is at the core of our psychological needs.
But to consider having sex with you, a woman has to about sex — especially with you.
Very few women are going to lead it there or say “You can ask me about sex now!
” Now if you’re naturally discussing a related topic like The movie, past relationships / hookups / dates, online dating, or first kisses — then take that opportunity to move into more intimate topics.
Instead, assume if you’ve been talking to a woman for a minimum of 15-30 minutes (at a bar or on a date), it’s safe to try leading into more enticing conversation.Whether it’s friends, family, religion, or media — many of us were raised to think that expressing our sexual interest (flirting) was wrong. This is especially true for many women who are afraid of being seen as “slutty” or too forward.Because of this, women often won’t signal their interest first.And they won’t talk about anything sexual until you do.In the above story, I finally embraced my sexuality and made the topic of sex out to be fun and no big deal.
The absolute worst things you can do are apologize or try to explain why you didn’t mean to be “weird”.